What a busy morning we had! The kids and I did all the laundry from this week and cleaned the basement. It needed it so badly! We reorganized all the toys,
vacuumed the finished area, swept and straitened the laundry room and even managed to get every toy from under the couches! I did the
vacuuming and sweeping, but the kids did all the picking up and organizing. It was wonderful! It is hard to watch them grow up, but it is such a benefit that they can help out.
We have been doing laundry once a week and I do very little of it! Ashton sorts all the lights and
darks out and puts the socks into each person's sock bag. Quintin puts the piles into baskets and carries them downstairs. Ashton (or any child) loads it into the washer. Normally I do the soap, but I taught
ashton how today and hope he will soon be able to do it on his own. Landon or
ashton switches it to the dryer when it's finished. Quintin takes it out of the dryer and carries it up for me. Normally I fold it all, but if the kids are not napping I have them help me sort and it gets done so quickly.
After our 2 hour clean up of the basement
I asked Quintin, "now do you understand why I like to limit the toys?" He answered "yes!" very quickly. He was in charge of the task of dumping out the basket with all the train stuff in it and getting all the toys out that did not belong in there. It took awhile to get out and put away all those little
legos,
duplos, little people,
playmobil and
lincoln logs that had somehow made their way into the train basket!
Another thing I have started doing is giving the children "zones" to clean up. Every evening after dinner we do a quick clean up of the main floor. Landon cleans up the living room (the least messy), Ashton cleans up the den and Quintin cleans up the dining room. They are getting really good at their areas and it makes for a much faster cleanup. It also keeps the little ones from making
quintin do all the work! Ashton really seems to have a sense of pride in his area so he does a very good job.
I have heard this quote a few times, "don't do anything for your children that they can do for themselves" and am taking it to heart. I assumed that the kids would resent it, but I get a very excited reply when I ask Landon to sort the
silverware out of the dishwasher or ask Ashton to set the table. It makes life much easier for me also and I like that my children don't always assume that everyone around is there to serve them!